331 NK : 1. 28April(Tuesday)

1. 28April(Tuesday)

there must be dialogue process goes on between the friends , so that we wont feel any communication gap between us . Its better way of clearing the doubts arising in friends , i m supportive of the idea. Lets continue of the dialogue process . My friend Murad Ali and Lokesh Singh said me few days back "why cant u threaten ur sisters father in law for money so that u can start ur own business . Look at u , where ru now , without job for more than 2+ years , staying in a PG alongside freshers ,doing JAVA course , staying from ur wife , tumhe sex karne ka man nhai kar raha hain shaadi ke baad bhi , tum hingare ho kia. etc..."

my sister's father in law used to follow a guy named Batuk Mahara , he will never say no to him . Why cant u put pressure on him via Batuk Maharaj , i m replied to him " this threatening concept on any topic to any anybody is not good idea " . Issse KHANDAN KI BADNAMI JADA HOGI . U need to found a way out , where u dont require to threaten somebody at all , by saying " agar maine problem par aaya , koi bhi batchega " . Insaan se ek baar galati hoti hain , u must learn from that mistake , need not repeat that . In this regard , THREATENING my sisters father in law , is in continuation of repeating the mistake on my side . Better solution is leave for foreign country and settle over there , and surrender the passport .

i shouldnt let the situation go out of hand , again i had to approach another Batuk Maharaj out here . Till the time i will be present here , these sort of Batuk Maharaj's will keep on approaching my family members or friends . I had to find a way out , where these sort of Batuk Maharaj will never again comes across . That's what my reply to Murad Ali and Lokesh Singh . Will i concentrate on my work and family or start putting strategy on containing these Batuk Maharaj . This is why threatening my sister's father in law is not the solution , better to find a way out where these sort of Batuk Maharaj's wont come across at all.

my point is not whether to threaten my sister's father in law or not , my point is " why a Batuk Maharaj will approach any of my family members and become indispensable". This shows our lack of administrative acumen . we cant predict this sort of situation can be arisen , while dealing with these Batuk Maharajs. We must have stopped over there itself, so that nobody require to say "isse se khandam ki badnami ho" ,. ya " agar maine problem par aaya , koi nhai batchega"